Polished, Feminine not girly, Luxurious, Functional + Fashionable, Modern Classic (focus on more casual pieces)

Hybrid Uber Wishlist and Loungewear wishlist, November, 2024

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Oh my goodness! Making this list has been crazy fun. On the one hand, you love luxury, getting dressed up and sophisticated, polished pieces. On the other hand, parenting a little one and working from home aren’t super conducive to fancy clothes. Not to worry, it’s all about balance and pairing. I know you’ve been worried that you’ll end up with “ a lot of beautiful pieces that don’t fit with your current lifestyle.” Because of this, I’ve opted to do a hybrid Uber Wishlist and Intimates and Loungewear Wishlist. So, it’s a very big one. We’ll do a separate list with jewelry and undergarments. This way you can see how everything comes together. Plus, you get access to Black Friday Deals for more items. Enough talk. Let’s dive in!

First up, few things communicate luxury like a great handbag. Your prefer bags that aren’t over the top, but resonate with folks who also appreciate those brands. This one speaks to you and me AND it works with your entire collection. There are several designer bags on this list and I don’t anticipate you buying all of them. In fact, there’s no need to. Instead, you have an array of options- every one discounted!- to make sure we find the bag that’s ideal for you. The goal is to end up with at least one cross body/ hands free that works for everyday parenting and one tote that’s just right with your laptop and for business and/or pleasure adventures.

I’ve organized the list into outfits. Clearly, everything will mix and match and items are not restricted to one outfit. But, I think it will help illustrate various approaches to styling each piece. This first collection is just right for running around in the elements during or after a workday. The jacket is my favorite vegan leather choice, just right for rain. It’s polished, high quality and will last for years. Try it with super flattering pants from Artizia, a sweater tank that is ideal with or without a jacket layered over top and finish things off with a functional and feminine heeled boot. Each item celebrates your curves and can be easily dressed up or down. They are also super comfortable and in neutral tones that work with your entire collection.

To Make this More Casual

Yes! I hear you. That’s a stellar outfit and let’s make sure it can get even more casual! Swap out the sweater tank for this perfect tee from Buck Mason in off white and try an easy on/off boot choice that’s great at the park or out on walks. We’re never sacrificing your personal style or functionality in either pairing. Just choose what’s best for that day’s activities. Options abound!

Super soft and high quality loungewear will change everything. This set from Negative is an investment, but SO worth it. Trust me. Layer it up or down. Try them as long underwear underneath other pieces to stay warmer without adding bulk. Feel free to wear these pants while working from home and pair with your work pieces. The fit is like a second skin and the sheer fabric makes you look and feel beautiful.

I’m a Coperni superfan and it’s definitely a brand for folks who are in the know. I especially appreciate the brand’s unusual silhouettes. This eye catching handbag is a nod to your appreciation of pieces that have that distinctive vibe that makes them stand out without being overly showy. This is a dream for work trips as it can hold your laptop and communicates a level of success and style right out of the gate.

The rest of this outfit is focused on comfort and functionality and elevated with color. Because we are opting for winter white/ ivory/ cream, everything feels much more luxurious and polished. But you are wearing super cozy clothes! We’re leaning into sweatshirts for you. They make a lot of sense for your lifestyle and with proper pairing, they can still feel elevated. This option from Marcella is great quality, really flattering and not a ubiquitous design, setting you apart from the pack. The vest makes every outfit more sophisticated. Toss it on over the most casual pieces and quickly see results. Working from home means that you want to be comfortable there and effortlessly toss on an item or two to transform your look. Typically, that means adding a polished coat (or vest!), a great pair of shoes and finishing things off with the right bag. So, imagine yourself in the most relaxed version of each outfit at home, then popping on the finishing touches to head out or take a video call. This look finishes off with a flattering pair of dark brown coated jeans. Again, polished and still just right for Friday night out with your family friends and the kids.

To make this Outfit cozier

A slim puffer can be layered underneath the vest and removed when you get warmer. I like this one from Uniqlo for super savings and quality. Just pack it up in your bag when you’re done. The hood is removable so it won’t impact the necklines of the sweatshirt or vest. Again, you’ll only need this if you are super cold, but sometimes, that’s the case.

Showing off your hourglass figure is always a win and wearing something super cozy and warm that is just right for work or play is ideal. Say, “hello” to body con dresses. Each of these can be worn solo or as a base layer. Also, they are lovely for home and can be dressed up quickly. Pair them with boots or heels for the win. And amp up this look with accessories that communicate your authentic personal style. I have no idea how your are going to choose between this array of accessories, but I’m excited to give you the opportunity to do so.

Givenchy has been good to you, so we’re starting with that. Another warm and functional sweater dress makes getting dressed truly effortless. This one has a more voluminous and still very flattering top half. You’ll want to use your style math to balance it with eye catching shoes or boots and finish things off with the vest or any of the coats on this list. I especially adore this one with the chocolate brown coat further down. A flat or low heeled boot is functional for running around with Braden and this pair from Blondo are reasonably priced and waterproof, so they won’t feel precious. This means they are just right for running around town together, hitting the park and so on. And this dress is just fine on the floor playing while you play with Lego.

We know that silk slip dresses work well on you. We also know that the spaghetti straps aren’t ideal for your shoulders and cause you to keep a slip dress covered at all times. No more! This strapless option from Quince is in WASHABLE silk. Yes! It’s great for a layering piece, but it’s also smashing for a night out. It flatters your frame and is functional throughout the year. I like it with the cozy cardigan piled on top and finished with boots. Then, remove the cardigan when you arrive at your destination. This is also a lovely layering piece for work, especially with the leather blazer. Stay warm with heattech tights in brown. We’ve moved on from black. I’m also including a beautiful Jimmy Choo handbag for the win.

You don’t always need an open neckline. But we do want pieces that show your shape and this sheer turtleneck is an incredible choice. Try a tank underneath for work or more casual situations and opt for a bra or bralette if you feel like opting for a bolder approach. Layering up the same color elongates your frame and communicates your polished style. The top of this outfit channels your inspiration outfit. Break things up with a silk skirt or jeans, depending what fits the occasion. We’re opting for silk everytime for you. No satin as it won’t feel as luxurious on your skin. After all, you dress for yourself first. I’m also recommending the longer skirt from Quince. if we’d like to shorten it, that’s always a possibility. Tailoring can do anything. The shorter version will feel less put together and will cut off your legs in a way that won’t speak to you. As for the jeans, flare jeans celebrate your curves and look incredible with heeled boots. I vote you finish off the look with a pair.

I can’t bring myself to create this entire list without putting a fun yellow crossbody bag in the mix. If this doesn’t resonate with you, just keep on going. But, if you are secretly intrigued, let me just say that this designer bag coordinates beautifully with your collection, will bring an element of fun to your outfits, is ideal for running around with Braden since it’s hands free AND what is more cheerful than yellow? Perhaps nothing.

If you were concerned about walks in the neighborhood or at the pumpkin patch, worry no more. Try either of these super cozy and stylish coats in colors that flatter your skintone, work with your entire collection and bring you joy. You’ll finish things off with the Godmother of winter boots, Cole Haan’s Zero Grand. They are waterproof, cool, comfortable and will last for years.

More sweatshirts, please! Both of these serve a different purpose and each will get lots of action in your wardrobe. Marcella’s off the shoulder choice is feminine, comfortable and a lightweight choice that’s great as the weather warms up. Try it with a strapless bra for the full effect or layer it over a tank top with a traditional bra for nights at home or if you prefer something a little more conservative. Cropped sweatshirts are a major win for you as they highlight your small waist and still keep you looking and feeling nice and casual. I especially like this color for you. And of course, this outfit all comes together thanks to the vegan leather barrel pants. Yes, they are a current, of the moment choice. But, I expect them to be useful for a couple of years or so. Vegan leather is a dream in the rain and this style is super comfortable and roomy. You’ll have an elevated casual look that’s just right for super relaxed situations. Also- holy Black Friday Sale Anthropologie!

I LOVE LOVE LOVE each of these pieces for you. The sweater is a rare flattering and stylish knit. Yes, please. The leather trench is luxurious and the color will look so beautiful on you. Yes, it’s a neutral. Yes, it’s bold and yes! You will get an insane amount of compliments wearing it. You mentioned that you could use a new pair of white jeans and this off white pair is just right for your new wardrobe. Get ready to show off your hourglass figure and feel insanely put together. Of course, this is lovely with a pair of heeled boots. Want to make it more casual? Try these super hip gold sneakers.

To Make This Outfit More Casual

A hoodie is always useful but often not flattering. A cropped hoodie is the best choice for your shape. Try this one with a tank top or the t-shirt at the top of this list rather than either of the sweatshirts above if you’d like this to have Sunday vibes.

This one looks better in real life than it does in the photos below. I’d also like to add that each of these pieces are magical paired with other choices on this list. So, don’t let any of these slip by you. The insanely great deal on the organza top is going to serve you well for years. I like it as a strapless choice for you, but it’s nice to have straps if you need them. Alternatively, the tailor can add thicker straps. We already know that Babaton’s blazer is unequivocally the best choice. But have you tried the cropped version? It will show off your small waist and work with pieces that the longer blazer will not. This color is also a fun one to mix and match with your new and existing collections. And last but absolutely not least, these DARK GREEN SILK PANTS. Are the pajamas or your cocktail party attire?! You choose! As it turns out, they can be both.

Oh my goodness, this is another stellar combo! We’re kicking things off with a crocodile tote. Luxurious, gorgeous and uber practical all at the same time. Just imagine yourself carrying this on a work trip! Continuing with our commitment to silk, you look lovely in a silk neck tie blouse. Let’s get you one in navy blue or forest green. Both are great staples that are anything but boring. And we’re taking this outfit to another level with a forest green leather blazer. I also love this jacket in mustard yellow for you…. Options abound. The tailor can always make this more fitted, if needed. But, I expect it to have a great hourglass silhouette and you can layer it over a t-shirt and jeans on the weekend. Ponte pants are insanely comfortable and do not stretch out over time. Boden does this best and these machine washable pants are easy to care for and hold up year after year. The flattering wide leg will minimize your stomach and celebrate your frame. You’ll never look back. As a working mom, I want to be sure you have some super comfortable flats for the long days. This gold pair is easy to coordinate with so many looks and the timeless style will keep them in your closet for years. They are a win for this outfit and for you.

I’m sure you were wondering when a tank top would appear as I keep mentioning them:) This silk piece is super flattering for your shoulders and works equally well with or without a jacket. Again, I love this color for you. Try this with the leather trench in a similar shade. You’ve already got the Power Blazer, but having it in chocolate brown will be a life saver. You can make this outfit feel more casual by finishing it off with a pair of jeans. This ankle length kick crop is just right with boots, flats or sneakers, making it easy to grab your things and head out the door quickly. Welcome to your last designer handbag of the list. Unique but still understated, Proenza Schouler makes beautiful, memorable items.

I love some of Staud’s pieces and shoes for you. It’s a sophisticated brand that leans more fun, classic and every once in a while, a little preppy. So, we’re opting for a bold, flattering choice that can be casual or dressy, depending on styling. No need to layer it, so getting dressed is quick and easy. This will elongate your shape and minimize your stomach. Not to mention, it will get a ton of compliments.

We’re getting close to the end! This is your last outfit with multiple components. We start with another style of silk blouse to offer some variety while sticking with your polished, sophisticated, luxurious vibe. It’s also washable! And I couldn’t help but include this copper trench. Yes! You can make this one more casual with jeans and a t-shirt. So, if it speaks to you, don’t worry. It also offers a magnificent final layer when you want something fun and confident. Finally, a tube skirt is a must have for you. It’s super flattering AND if you choose the right one, can feel like pajamas when you are at home. This one from Skims is just right. Also, Kim Kardashian is the founder of Skims and for you, this feels right in so many ways.

You should own this. And when you do, you’ll find a reason to wear it.

And there you have it! It’s long, I know. But I hope you can see where we are going here. You’re going to look good, feel good and you’ll continue to do good. You are a strong, kind, lovely person and your clothes should celebrate all of you. Happy shopping!

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